The Woman.For you.For me.For us

When God created woman he was working late on the 6th day
An angel came by and said: “Why spend so much time on that one?”

And the Lord answered: “Have you seen all the specifications I have to meet to shape her ?"

“She must be washable, but not made of plastic, have more than 200 moving parts which all must be replaceable and she must function on all kinds of food, she must be able to embrace several kids at the same time, give a hug that can heal anything from a bruised knee to a broken heart and she must do all this with only two hands”.

The angel was impressed.

“Just two hands....impossible!“

And this is the standard model?!

“Too much work for one day....wait until tomorrow and then complete her“.

“I will not”, said the Lord. “I am so close to complete this creation, which will be the favourite of my heart”.

“She cures herself when sick and she can work 18 hours a day”.

The angel came nearer and touched the woman.

“But you have made her so soft, Lord” “She is soft", said the Lord, “But I have also made her strong. You can’t imagine what she can endure and overcome.“

“Can she think?" the angel asked. 

The Lord answered:
“Not only can she think, she can reason and negotiate."

The angel touched the womans cheek....
“Lord, it seems this creation is leaking! You have put too many burdens on her.” 

“She is not leaking....it’s a tear” the lord corrected the angel

“What’s it for?" asked the angel.

And the Lord said:
“Tears are her way of expressing grief, her doubts, her love, her loneliness, her suffering and her pride.”

This made a big impression on the angel; “Lord, you are genius.
You thought of everything. The woman is indeed marvellous!"

Indeed she is!
Woman has strengths that amazes man. She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens.
She holds happiness, love and opinions.
She smiles when feeling like screaming.
She sings when she feels like crying, crys when she is happy and laughs when she is afraid.

She fights for what she belives in.
Stand up against injustice.
She doesn’t take “no” for an answer, when she can see a better solution. She gives herself so her family can thrive. She takes her friend to the doctor if she is afraid.
Her love is unconditional.

She cries when her kids are victorious. She is happy when her friends do well.
She is glad when she hears of a birth or a wedding.

Her heart is broken when a next of kin or friend dies.
But she finds the strength to get on with life.

She knows that a kiss and a hug can heal a broken heart.

There is only one thing wrong with her:

She forgets what she is worth...

De ce?

De ce avem nevoie sa creada ceilalti in noi? N-ar fi suficient sa credem noi insine in propria persoana? De ce ne indoim de toti si de toate? De ce ne dorim atat de mult sa fim laudati de ceilalti? De ce ne flateaza orgoliul chiar si minciuna? De ce suntem atat de mici si patetici? De ce mintim ca nu ne pasa cand de fapt cersim atentia celor din jur? De ce facem alegeri proaste? De ce ne ratam viata? De ce atunci cand nu avem nimic de spus ne ascundem in spatele cuvintelor alambicate? De ce atunci cand n-am inteles nimic ne lansam in teorii complicate incercand sa ne mascam ignoranta? De ce pretindem ca suntem altfel decat in realitate? De ce ne amintim doar raul care ni s-a facut? De ce dispretuim suferinta celor din jur? De ce ii ranim atat de usor pe ceilalti? De ce preferam sa uitam in loc sa ne infruntam problemele? De ce alegem calea minimei rezistente? De ce ne este frica? De ce speram in miracole in loc sa luptam pana la capat? De ce ni se pare ca singurul lucru care conteaza este propria viata?
Pentru ca suntem egoisti;suntem lacomi;suntem mandri;suntem fricosi;suntem limitati;pentru ca avem idei preconcepute;suntem dezinteresati;suntem ambitiosi;suntem dependenti de fraze frumoase si oameni pupincuristi.
Dar si pentru ca toate cele din paragraful de mai sus nu pot fi combatute de faptul ca suntem umani,avem sentimente;avem vise;am fost copii;avem compasiune;avem mila;avem pasiune;avem inteligenta;avem prieteni;avem dorinta,dar nu si vointa (Sufletele mari au vointa,cele mici doar dorinta.-Proverb chinezesc).
Eu cred in schimbari mici;care conduc la miracole mari;e timpul sa te schimbi.

Spor la treaba!
Cu drag,Constiinta ta.